but till date the only mention we hear of this tome is in obscenity cases in court. On the other hand and indigenous to the core, our very own manual of love, The Kamasutra was written was written by Vatsyayana's sometime in the 7th century A.D. Take Valentines Day for example.Ĭompletely alien even a decade back, we took to it and ran with it and are now willing to defend it with our lives.

If you're a bit squeamish, a curved vibrator may be easier to use, while the vibration adds another dimension of pleasure for him.We Indians are an experimental lot and anything that’s even remotely novel, manages to find a way into our lifestyle. The prostate produces ejaculatory fluid and feels like a firm bulge about the size of a walnut. Curve your finger towards his belly button and a few inches in, massage his prostate through the front wall of his rectum.

Wait for his sphincter muscles to relax, then insert it a little further. Gently slip your finger inside a little way (no nails, please - and ask first in case he's got a phobia about this). It's rich in nerve endings, so he should find this highly pleasurable. How to do this: while you're pleasuring him with your mouth or hand, when he's highly aroused pop some saliva or lubricant on your finger and rub the rim of his anus as well. This can produce a particularly deep, whole-body orgasm. Many guys love their prostate (the P-spot, or male equivalent of the G-spot) being massaged, either internally via the anus or externally by stroking the perineum. (With humble apologies in advance to all who will object.) And on that good note, here are some of my favourite Kama Sutra sex tricks to add enormous pleasure to our sex lives. Especially because a heck of a lot of guys have no clue that the clitoris exists, let alone that it is the key to women's orgasms. So I admit I'm on something of a personal crusade. (Solo RW yawn.) The more I write about how to improve our sexual awareness, and the more people who email me with their heart-rending problems and their heartfelt thanks for opening their eyes, the more I realise how desperate many South Africans are for straightforward, tell-it-like-it-is sex articles. Some fathers even encourage their sons to watch porn with them as a misguided introduction to women and sex.īut educate our children about how men's and women's bodies respond to sexual stimuli? Collective South African gasp. They may have unfettered access to pornography on the Internet. Somewhat ironically, they have access to locally-shot graphic content sent to their cellphones, probably made by their peers at school. Yet the contemptuous scorn heaped on school-based sex education before that watershed moment remains intact. It's been 17 years since democracy was ushered in with huge fanfare. In sex, we are largely still expected to operate in the dark.

Karma sutra position for male orgasm